Well, given the random downvote and refusal to respond, I guess I have my answer on whether or not you want to have an open/honest discussion. Disappointing. I thought better of you. That behavior also doesn't belong on this community.

We're trying to be open, accepting, positive and willing to have a discussion. Dismissal and random downvotes don't belong here. Take care and I wish you the best but you might need to re-evaluate a bit and try to stick to the atmosphere we're setting here on the server.