First and foremost, my partner went exclusively to single sex schools. He has never actually been present to observe these kinds of behaviors in school age/teenage girls (only dated a few when he was in late teens).
This is why I have almost no friends left from my time at an all boys boarding high school. Just say the most deranged stuff about women, even now that they're in their mid 20s. Didn't grow out if it at all.
I had a similar experience in college: most of the people I roomed with and went to class with were self described "South Park Republicans" and most went on to tech jobs which only coddled and amplified their dudebro "nonpolitical" misogyny.
I met up with some of them recently and it was just sad. I know people don't change that much and shouldn't be expected to, but these guys said the exact same stuff they did when they were 16, almost a decade later. No personal growth in almost a decade. Just sad.
First and foremost, my partner went exclusively to single sex schools. He has never actually been present to observe these kinds of behaviors in school age/teenage girls (only dated a few when he was in late teens).
That's not a surprise that's a cause
This is one of those things where I'd ask if you've brought it up with him, but holy shit I'm so tired of arguing with people all the time.
I have to assume this is a troll account because it's like incel bingo.
If it's a bit I fail to get the joke, and their comments history doesn't support that either
That's concerning. His observance of women is likely from the bushes outside their bedroom windows.
Reality.
No, that's solipsism. You're ignoring everyone else in this thread, and in your offline life, in favor of your own self-pitying fantasies.
I actively seek to have an IRL outlook on life
And you clearly don't. But you refuse to see that because you refuse to acknowledge anything but your own self-sabotaging beliefs.
I understand very well what the online socialist left tries to do
And you clearly don't. Again, you refuse to see that because you refuse to acknowledge anything but your own self-sabotaging beliefs.
so I am not that worried.
Yet here you are, still, either seeking validation or indulging some sort of martyr complex.
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I pointed out misandry
You being a crybully piece of shit and getting called out for being a crybully piece of shit isn't misandry. You truly are not all men. Which is fortunate.
Bravo, you have solved the problem. * dusts hands *
Your passive-aggressive sarcasm makes you look petty and weak here. Your "self improvement" is continuing to sabotage you.
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You are telling me to go become a redpiller/Tateist lol.
Jordan Peterson once said "clean your room, bucko." That doesn't mean that cleaning a room is automatically a bad idea. Likewise, you must have some terrible grasp of lived reality if you think the only reason to not sulk and be passive-aggressive all the time is because of what a human trafficker might have said once.
Rather be calm and not listen
You keep replying. You keep carrying that cross you built for yourself.
than swing myself in any direction
You're freefalling in a self-inflicted rightward direction and fooling no one here.
When my politics is almost wholly leftist
Bullshit. You can say that all you like but you've presented absolutely nothing but right wing talking points and misogynistic prattle.
and not shitting on all men
While you whine and make wide-scale blanket assumptions about all women. And about men that aren't you. You represent no one but yourself here, which is as it should be because your takes are garbage.
I fail to see how I can be a rightwinger
You fail to even begin to appear as otherwise. Saying "I am as leftist as they come, but" and then spewing right wing shit is an old tiresome tactic that is fooling no one here. Update your playbook, since you claim to be into "self improvement."
leftist moral compliance
Or you can drop your self pitying bullshit, like seeing it as "an act of leftist moral compliance" to not be a misogynistic asshole, and instead choose to not be a misogynistic asshole. You'd be better off.
Did your "self improving" consist of listening to pseudo-evolutionary pseudo-psychologists run their mouths?
This is precisely why I find myself always taking a step back whenever I end up aligning with the socialist left on social politics.
Sure, sure, you are as leftist as they come,
Everytime it is about cis het men self improvement or working out
Or you pretending it's all you're doing when you write Elliot Rodger tier shit like this:
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no social consideration for men
I can already see the Petersonian crocodile tears.
Sorry
You're not, but you sound more passive-aggressive with that Reddit-tier opener. If you're that big into "self improvement" try improving your delivery style.
I never followed lobster boy
Considering how much you've already either lied about or laughably misread women around you, I'm going to doubt you here. If you truly haven't, and you want to continue your crusade of self pity and totally-not-misogyny misogyny, you're missing out by not signing on with Dr. Professor Peterson Esquire PhD MD. You have no apparent functional differences between your ideology and his.
About 99% of my politics is pretty much as leftist
There it is again. You are so totally as leftist as they come,
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The thing with bigots like you is that you think it's some equal (or worse) negative thing to feel even a hint of what you in your privileged position dish out on a regular basis, unnoticed and unseen. If you truly feel oppressed by those evil feeeeemales, look at how many poor oppressed "canceled" men dominate corporate boardrooms and the Fortune 500 list (while burning the planet down).
is going to get labelled as a "Petersonian" or "pseudointellectual" redpill apologist
Because you are and have provided absolutely nothing of substance to prove otherwise. If you sermonize against women like a Petersonian, do pseudointellectual Redpill apologism like a pseudointellectual Redpill apologist, and then whine about the labels, the problem is not the labels. It is you.
Blame the men that need to be blamed.
You're one of them. I am a man with good relationships with women, from my wife to my coworkers to my friends. The problem is you. Your pretenses of "self improvement" are keeping you in a bitter and hateful rut and I sincerely hope you drop the nonsense someday.
You're the one making rightwing, redpill assertions. Shut up about women and you won't have this problem
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"Simply saying I was working on self improving" lmao
As someone that's done self improvement stuff (exercising, running calisthenics, healthier diet, letting stuff from the past go, mental introspection, etc) without the red pill chud nonsense, this guy's comment is just not it. He still hasn't let some girls "cock blocking" him go. What kind of self improvement is that? Clear issues with women here.
That chud is "self improving" the way his not-idol Jordan Peterson "studied communism for 25 years" before the Zizek debate.
"Men on the other hand are calm, which is why they calmly write whiny crybully misogynist shit like all of the above."
So, what did you telling this feminist about your self improvement look like? Did it involve saying anything about the supposed nature of men and/or women?
Because you're doing that here, and "self-improvement" has become synonymous with evo-psych quackery like Jordan Peterson's
I was trying to become socially a good person for friends, to become socially favourable towards girls
Those are one and the same thing. Women aren't some other kind of beast that you have to learn about, they're just people that you need to unlearn some distinctions about if you ever want to connect with them. Same goes for men.
When I hear another man talk about men being chimps when chasing women, I hear excuses for stereotypical and often violent behavior
I was trying to become socially a good person for friends
And you failed.
to become socially favourable towards girls
And you failed.
since I was a whacko with borderline (not fully) redpill beliefs
Those never went away.
aka not giving a F about her
Your self-congratulatory apathy toward other people is self-defeating and the reason you continue to fail.
Does that sound like lobster boy's 12 rules and other evangelist Christian preaching to you?
There is no functional difference. If you came up with that shit all by yourself you're just working extra hard when that garbage is already there for the taking.
Thanks for judging me and my alleged personality failures
You are voluntarily continuing to sabotage your own well being with your ruinous beliefs. Passive-aggressive sarcastic statements don't protect you from that and they even fail your own standards of "self improvement" unless sulking and pouting is part of your manliness regimen.
when you know nothing about me beyond what I type on internet
This isn't 2003. The internet's been around long enough for that 4chan lie about how the nazis on 4chan were only ironic nazis has ceased to be convincing. People more often than not are what they present themselves as on the internet and the mask of anonymity just makes people like you show us what you really are beneath offline social expectations.
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I am enlightened and will soon reach divinity by your holy life crippling blessings.
Again, your passive-aggressive sarcastic sulking is not doing anything for you here.
men also get to speak on behalf of all women
I am a man. I will speak on behalf of men that are not you and tell you to fuck off.
