It's 100% untrue. Men are beautiful. You are beautiful. Believe in yourself and remember that the most attractive thing in the world is a kind heart and that starts with being kind to yourself.

Don't let the world make you feel ugly, they're just trying to sell you shit.

  • Tankiedesantski [he/him]
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    4 years ago

    I recently got out of a relationship with a person who was very critical of how I dressed and looked and started a relationship with someone who genuinely likes my sense of style.

    The difference to my self esteem and overall happiness has been tremendous.

    Sometimes, it's not that there's anything wrong with you but rather the people around you just aren't a good fit.

    • Dirt_Owl [comrade/them, they/them]
      hexagon
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      4 years ago

      This 100%. That's why being kind to yourself is important. It's your body. Dress in a way that makes you happy.

      I'm a non-binary woman. I was assigned female at birth but I like to cut my hair short and dress like a dude. Some people think I look ridiculous, other people think I look cool. I've learnt to not give a shit about other peoples approval because in the end everyones taste is different and some assholes are going to try to make you feel ugly even if they think you look good.

      You only live once after all so might as well be yourself first and foremost.

      • Tankiedesantski [he/him]
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        4 years ago

        Fuck yeah comrade. You do you!

        Work already steals our right to dress as we please most of the week. We have to live for ourselves whenever we can.