This might sound awful, or maybe not, but have you ever seen a white American that didn't really have any awareness of their whiteness? Like, they had one or two good friends that were black while growing up and took the time to study Malcom X and MLK as they got older, but they never really considered what it's like to be considered different? No matter what, they just don't have the ability to just live their life as a black person growing up in a low-income neighborhood, and they're completey clueless about the situation, but they try to read about struggles out of curiosity with hopes that they can do something to help out a bit.
This is how it's like when I compare myself to people in the LGBT community as a whole, and especially trans/nonbinary people. It's just not who I am. I try to be well-intentioned when bringing this stuff up, but it's just not based on an experience I actually had. Still, I support the rights movement more than the average person around where I live, just because I think it's one of those things that benefits everyone. I have the belief that there's been a lot of historical events that show people taking on the role of the gender opposing their assigned sex, and I think such a small minority actually need surgery to address that discrepency that it's a non-issue to let these people live how they need to live. It's pretty much harmless, cheap, and makes people feel better about themselves. It's already rare enough to find someone who isn't transphobic around my place, so it's unheard of that someone like me would really care that much. The people around here who do, they usually just talk about how they voted for Biden, how drunk they got at pride, and how much they like insulting Trump in the privacy of their own homes. No offensive to them, but it's about as performative as black people who cheered on Obama and laugh at racist comments about NBA players on Twitter. To educate myself, these people aren't so reliable. They're dismissive and just assume that if you aren't LGBT (or black in the second case) that there's nothing to worry about and that I should just keep my opinions to myself, as if it's better to just let things be. Like I'm the bad guy for thinking Jay-Z and Caitlyn Jenner aren't good examples of liberation, ignoring that I spend time finding actual non-capitalist and non-individualist solutions to struggles.
I have flipped through the first book and will be taking the time to actually read it, though, so I'm trying to catch up a little bit.
This is what I've been on lately. I try my best, but I think it comes off a little ignorant