Yeah its frankly really weird. Seems like it penalizes people who dont have familial support or good friends... just cause?

Oh yeah, I've been high as shit with my friend all day lmao, we're having a blast

Honestly it was all them. I feel like I barely did anything, mostly just sat and listened, and they sat and listened to me whine on about my shit too. Then just let them sleep however long they wanted. It was a mutual gain.

Plus, me and husband got a regular dnd buddy to live with us. Huge win

Sorry to hear about your father :\ Cancer fucking sucks

I've been in hell before too. I met them in college and knew immediately that something was up and became good friends with them and commiserated on shared experiences. Then they got diagnosed with cancer, and the pity party in our friend group was thrown but they never helped them materially. All those liberals just slowly ghosted my friend and left because they can't handle loss or hardship like actual people. I was with my friend during the surgeries, the pain, the struggle. I know how it all feels, and how everyone was reacting was doing it wrong. You gotta be able to handle the good and the bad when someone is going through something rough, thats the only way someone can heal.

I didn't ghost them, I helped and WE FUCKING WON FUCK YEAH