Feinsteins_Ghost [he/him]

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  • Feinsteins_Ghost [he/him]tochatDating apps suck so bad
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    7 days ago

    Dating apps frighten me, to be frank. Ive tried a couple of them, and everything just feels like I’m being screened. It feels like Im being interviewed for work. Or that Im browsing applications myself to see if someone is right for the job. It feels very disconnected, and impersonal.

    Beyond that the conversations I have had feel somewhat forced, like I need to have that hook that makes my app jump to the top of the stack of apps. That or its just fifth gear sexual innuendo from the jump, and Im just kind of whatever about that. Ive had two that I almost felt like they were just trying for some shit to post on r/tinder. I dont really feel like competing, so I just dont any more. I am not sexually active, its been a couple years since my last but its whatever. Ive never really been a casual fling type of guy, although I have had few through my life. I have two kids, and a very busy work schedule. I have hobbies, I go camping and trekking, and a couple friends both male and female that I spend time with when time allows. Im mostly satisfied except the occasional desire for a companion. Maybe Im a troglodyte. Maybe Im out of touch, in which case maybe I shouldnt be dating anyone anyway. I dont know any more. anyway, heres Wonderwall.