grym [she/her, comrade/them]

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Cake day: July 26th, 2020

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  • grym [she/her, comrade/them]tochapotraphouse*permanently deleted*
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    14 days ago

    Welcome back comrade, remember this https://hexbear.net/comment/757569 ? 4 fucking years ago ey.

    Welp i'm trans now. Thanks for making me read Feinberg lmao. Somehow that's not what finalized cracking my egg, but it was a little step along the way. Hope you're well.








  • If it helps this could have been quoted from my journal like a year ago. Its hard, try to let yourself be guided by what feels right, I had a very hard time listening to myself, trusting myself, and even knowing how I felt. Its hard to parse genuine anxiety about things you don't want to do, and the anxiety about what other people will think or say to you if you do them.


  • Fucking sucks ass. I hate it. It takes up to a week for me and the whole time I look so gross.

    Last time it was a small enough amount of hair I just epilated the whole thing took like 2 hours and many tears but felt so much better than waiting with the gross burnt hair on my face and having to go to work with it.

    There's not much thay has grown back this time, especially since I have no shaved just epilated. Feels really nice. Its mostly super blonde/light hair left, which will probably need electrolysis.


  • I should say I use the term to mean something more than just the small baeddel groups that existed before. The rethoric is still alive and VERY spread out on tumblr, the old baeddel accounts are still around. Baeddelism the small movement might have been a niche overly online thing but the broader rethoric is still here, just more hidden now. Its gotten to the point where on tumblr if I see someone using the terms tme or tma I systematically check their other posts or who they repost, and almost every time I can find this baeddel or tirf stuff underneath. It made me very sad and anxious because you find it in very popular and well known accounts.

    Terfs have found a way to remake arbitrary binaries and to use them for splitting the community more and more. Its a poison. You wouldn't believe the insane harassment and drama that transmasc accounts on tumblr, twitter, etc.. already went through.

    I honestly think its a contributing factor to why there are less transmasc comrades here, because if you see a place that's not actively fighting against this rethoric its fair to assume its been spreading there unknowingly.