Context: I'm not on your instance.
I've read many posts from hexbear but in many cases, like 4\5, I don't vibe with them like I haven't vibed with r/chapo before. So I didn't participate much on their own communities. I was more likely to upvote their jokes and ideas on other instancies where they behave more comprehensible for an outsider. When they don't go deep into their level of satire, they are readable and funny.
I feel like letting them being the owners of their den and then participating in other communities on the rights of guests is right.
But it's more about their community and their users. And for yours – make what you and your users feel right. The pleasure of federation is that you don't have to care. Jumping between instances of a growing fediverse to make your comfy seat is half of it's fun. Listen to what's your heart's saying and do that. It's not as critical as some people make you think.
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