They already did, Spotlight is Machiavelli behind the “walled garden”

Comparison is the thief of joy.

You were lucky enough to be born in a place, at a time, where the center of your existential dread isn’t your next meal, unreasonable enemies as neighbors, or artillery through your door, walls, and/or roof, but not feeling the state of happiness you perceive others to be in, due to your superficial anecdotal experience of them.

To answer your question, yess that makes you an asshole, the life you live day-to-day is someone’s heaven & someone else’s hellscape, simultaneously.

Every year we make it through the Taurid Meteor Stream as a species, without nuclear war poppin, is a blessing.