I know I'm not in trouble, but I do feel bad that I'm probably the reason blahaj.zone will defederate with hexbear. I just thought they had an insane take on what hexbear was and posted it in the_dunk_tank. I included a link because I am not a 
but also I am a and so are all of you and I'm sorry for that as well.
Update: we're probably not defederating anymore
They have a new post debating defederation, posted in their meta community which only shows posts to blajah users (which I kinda feel like they should've been done in the first place if they wanted a private discussion). Anyways, users in that thread are split about defedding but it seems like ada changed their mind about it since our admins updated some rules.