The best bit is that we can't even see it lmao

  • forcequit [she/her]
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    1 year ago

    so cis (in this instance) pertains to gender, whereas hetero is with regard to sexuality. cis/trans (what you are) vs homo/hetero (what you're attracted to)

    No daft questions! We're all peers here :)

    • 𝕸𝖔𝖘𝖘@infosec.pub
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      1 year ago

      I think I understand... So, a cis person can be attracted to either the same gender (homo) or the opposite gender (hetero) or both genders (bi), but attributes herself/himself to her/his birth-gender.... right? Or am I still confused? Haha

      Is cis and acronym?

      No daft questions! We’re all peers here :)

      <3 thank you so much!! I've never had a safe place to ask these questions before, so I've been (knowingly) going around for at least a decade with these misunderstandings. I really appreciate you and the time you're putting into helping me understand!

      • forcequit [she/her]
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        1 year ago

        cis I think comes from the alps or something, cis/trans-alpine. It's also used in chemistry to determine the handedness of particular isomers (I think). It's a prefix, not an acronym, in any case.
        Unless you listen to TERFs (which is an acronym, 'trans-exclusionary radical feminist), who'll tell you it stands for Cis Is a Slur lol

        In your example yeah you got it right, cis/trans refers to a gender signifier, whereas homo/hetero is a sexuality signifier. They're similar prefixes with different applications

        And then there's me who's just... queer I guess, the more I think about it the more confused I get, be gay do crime and learn to love yourself

        • 𝕸𝖔𝖘𝖘@infosec.pub
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          1 year ago

          Ok cool! This just made past conversations make so much more sense.

          A queer pirate... Like Robert De Niro in Stardust haha (if you haven't seen that movie, I highly recommend it).

          • forcequit [she/her]
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            1 year ago

            It's not on my radar, but I'll look into it tonight, thanks!

            • 𝕸𝖔𝖘𝖘@infosec.pub
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              1 year ago

              I watched it thinking I'd hate it (not usually a fan of fantasy), but this became one of my favorite movies after only one watch.