edit: now it's a meme and we can all hug in the comments.

  • TheLepidopterists [he/him]
    hexbear
    10
    9 months ago

    Halloween sucks as a holiday

    I've never seen such a bad opinion from a Hexbear user.

    • SoyViking [he/him]
      hexbear
      4
      9 months ago

      I guess this is one of those YMMW situations. I'm sure Halloween can be fun and cool in America but outside of America it really sucks.

      Where I'm from Halloween was not a thing until ten or fifteen years ago when toy stores decided they wanted to use the opportunity to market ugly plastic decorations and shitty costumes. There's none of the cultural background that gives celebrations like this meaning and it all feels fake, like people are pretending to be Americans rather than taking part in a genuine celebration.

      Celebrating Halloween as a non-American also has a tiresome aspect of cultural imperialism in it. Adopting stuff from other cultures is fine but why does it have to be stuff from burgerland every single time? Why can't we do Dias de los muertos or Chinese New year instead?

      • TheLepidopterists [he/him]
        hexbear
        4
        9 months ago

        Ah, yeah, I should say my opinion is entirely based around my experience as an American. It's pretty deeply ingrained here- I mean imagine telling an American that they have to tolerate children running around at 9pm in the dark, they can't drive their cars around because the streets are clogged with those children and furthermore, they need to stock up on candy because they will be giving it away to the kids.

        And there is a culture tradition of vandalizing the homes of people who are stingy about the candy.

        If it were new here it'd never even catch on, just like public libraries.

    • usernamesaredifficul [he/him]
      hexbear
      3
      9 months ago

      it's just a bit underwhelming. Kids knock on your door and you watch a scary movie. You don't even get a day off and it's not an all day thing it's just early night

      • TheLepidopterists [he/him]
        hexbear
        6
        9 months ago

        Yeah but you get to dress your kid up as a velociraptor or a ghost buster or something and then interact with people who live near you in a friendly way which doesn't exist outside of Halloween in this atomized hellscape. Plus it's way more than one day, I'm putting giant spiders all over my place for at least a month. The webs are hell to take down so I might even leave em up through November out of laziness lol

        • usernamesaredifficul [he/him]
          hexbear
          5
          9 months ago

          that is true I just wish we culturally made more of a thing of it. If we are to treat it seriously as a holiday it should involve days off work and events