Like ever? I feel like it’s almost guaranteed the more money the worse you become. I know this isn’t very dialectic but it’s true.

  • forcequit [she/her]
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    1 year ago

    and now to backflip on my original comment, I'd wager it's more to do with the intention of acquisition. If you're already making enough to live comfortably and then some, putting any further energy into earning more is taking away from your ability to assist others.

    Also give me money pls

    • YearOfTheCommieDesktop [they/them]
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      1 year ago

      yeah I make way less than 100k and I've already hit the point where I have no push to strive for more money, beyond just like, asking for raises commensurate to outpace inflation and my increasing experience/responsibilities, and even that I'm not that good about. I'd probably try harder for more if I had aspirations to buy a big house, or if I had a partner and kids to support or whatever, but nah

      • forcequit [she/her]
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        1 year ago

        I mean the aus poverty line sits at like $25kpa. That's more than what I earned as a teen/young adult, and it's not nearly enough to live on independently.

        I'd love to have the security of owning my own home one day, and splitting expenses with a loved one, but boy howdy is that getting more and more unattainable or what.

        • YearOfTheCommieDesktop [they/them]
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          1 year ago

          yeah honestly I'd also still like something more stable than renting, so I guess owning a condo or something is probably still a goal, and ofc so is finding a life partner or something, but I'm in no hurry for either rn, I can barely keep the rest of my life from falling apart, I don't need more responsibility

                • YearOfTheCommieDesktop [they/them]
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                  1 year ago

                  yea

                  and yet I still don't think I'd move anywhere else unless things seriously deteriorate. america really sucks but I do like my city and its climate (snow). idk whats wrong with me, but I'm just a polar bear, can't take the heat. I guess there's canada

                  • forcequit [she/her]
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                    1 year ago

                    yeah I'm in SE aus, no snow but away from the worst of the heat. Idk how people willingly live in the tropics tbh

      • Nakoichi [they/them]M
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        1 year ago

        I make like 25k a year and still find ways to give to others less fortunate. I put in $500 of my own money to the fundraiser we had featured, I frequently buy groceries for people that need help, or bring food to unhoused folks even when I am not doing stuff like working at the local FnB free kitchen.

      • Comp4 [she/her]
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        1 year ago

        I make less than 50k a year but where I live and how I live makes it feel like a decent amount of money to me. Got no car,pets,children and I live alone in a small but nice place. I feel "ok" from a financial standpoint and I can afford most things I want while still saving some money. It does help that I eat at my parents place quite often and they sometimes chime in with stuff like health bills. Im not wealthy but I dont feel close to poor if that makes sense.

        If I had a partner that would also bring in some money I would "feel" really well off. That said owning my own place is currently far out of reach...

      • WhatWouldKarlDo@lemmygrad.ml
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        1 year ago

        I hit that point about a decade ago. It was a fantastic feeling after a lifetime of empty bellies and living paycheque to paycheque. Now I have dependents, and being trans is seriously a lot more expensive than I thought it would be (not to mention inflation and housing costs skyrocketing). I'm in no danger of starving anymore, but I kind of miss making less money and having less responsibility.

    • citrussy_capybara [ze/hir]
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      1 year ago

      No need to backflip. That user was in one of the “stop using racist slurs for customising cars” sticking up for racism. And that they’re sad they can’t use slurs on hexbear but will continue to do so in real life. Car-brained bigot. “What would Karl do” is apparently “glorify car culture and use anti-Asian slurs”.

      • forcequit [she/her]
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        1 year ago

        and now to frontflip on my previous comment, my original 100k estimate still stands

          • Nakoichi [they/them]M
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            1 year ago

            I did not deliberately misgender you, I'm old and from california where terms like guy and dude are often used in a non-gendered way. Also "I have an asian friend" is a hell of a way to deflect from the fact that the term rice wrt cars and ESPECIALLY Linux OS customization has explicitly racist origins.

            • pillow
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              11 months ago

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              • Nakoichi [they/them]M
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                1 year ago

                My sister and I always addressed each other with the word "dude" and we would often refer to a plurality of our friend groups as "you guys" etc. Now this is not an excuse on my part and I should do better at keeping a check on that about myself but I was definitely not deliberately misgendering this person who comes off very strongly as a concern troll.

                • seeking_perhaps [he/him]
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                  1 year ago

                  I get that you genuinely didn't intend to misgender, but you should probably stop calling people guy/dude if you're unsure of their gender or if they will be comfortable with it.

      • Nakoichi [they/them]M
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        1 year ago

        Last month I touched grass in three different states while doing work to build an organization with the aim of restoring indigenous sovereignty. Please tell me more about this.