Like ever? I feel like it’s almost guaranteed the more money the worse you become. I know this isn’t very dialectic but it’s true.

    • Nakoichi [they/them]M
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      1 year ago

      I did not deliberately misgender you, I'm old and from california where terms like guy and dude are often used in a non-gendered way. Also "I have an asian friend" is a hell of a way to deflect from the fact that the term rice wrt cars and ESPECIALLY Linux OS customization has explicitly racist origins.

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        11 months ago

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        • Nakoichi [they/them]M
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          1 year ago

          My sister and I always addressed each other with the word "dude" and we would often refer to a plurality of our friend groups as "you guys" etc. Now this is not an excuse on my part and I should do better at keeping a check on that about myself but I was definitely not deliberately misgendering this person who comes off very strongly as a concern troll.

          • seeking_perhaps [he/him]
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            1 year ago

            I get that you genuinely didn't intend to misgender, but you should probably stop calling people guy/dude if you're unsure of their gender or if they will be comfortable with it.