It just means weak and cowardly

just say that instead of drawing an anatomical reference

opposite of their imaginary "alpha males".

granting the premise starts off on a misogynistic foot - there's no such thing and you're not going to own them "by their logic" without causing friendly fire.

and it's their own phrase being used against them.

an ironic homophobic phrase is still homophobic.

explain away cow-wrangler