• Koa_lala [he/him]
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    1 year ago

    I just found my person extremely randomly after giving up dating. Now I'm in love, help. This feels funky.

      • Koa_lala [he/him]
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        1 year ago

        I met them while I was on holiday. We started talking and I found out we overlapped in tons of ways. Conversation with her was so effortless and fun, we never stopped talking. Soon after I realized I was falling in love with her. I kept it quiet, because I didn't want to mess it up. But then she was like "Hey, so what is the deal between us?". I spilled the beans and we confessed that we had feelings for each other.

        I think it helped that we weren't looking for a relationship at all. dating always made me feel nervous, I would doubt myself and the dates would never feel genuine and feel forced. But this just worked itself out.