I promise I am not a reactionary, but I am somewhat uneducated on the subject so I might say something offensive accidentally, sorry in advance about that.

So, does gender dysphoria stem from a disconnect between the body and some "gender socialization" function of the brain, which could be solved by getting socialized and treated by everyone as the correct gender from the start, or something that stems from a disconnect between the brain and the actual body parts and hormones, so the transition is needed to alleviate that, or both?

  • Are_Euclidding_Me [e/em/eir]
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    8 months ago

    Buddy, you are (unintentionally, I'm sure) repeating some fairly transphobic talking points. How would you feel about a study analyzing the brain structure of gay people to try and search for differences between gay and straight people? Does that seem like a good study to you? Also, your response to silent_water is doing exactly what I hoped you weren't doing when I wrote my last comment to you, namely, you're saying that a trans person telling you to your face that hormones make them feel better, so there must be some biological component to transness sometimes might be, what? Mistaken? Lying? Or maybe you just think that my (and silent_water's) physical response to hormones is somehow mediated through culture? That is the non-transphobic reading of what you've said, but if that's what you believe you're going to have to bring forth some evidence that someone's physical response to a change of hormones could be solely cultural. Because I do not see any possibility that a change to someone's endocrine balance would feel different based purely on social factors.

    • SILLY BEAN@lemmygrad.ml
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      8 months ago

      i just noticed i got a little emotional here, and i kinda doubled down after being proven wrong. and i might have said some really stupid things (that i should know are untrue) that also straight up conflict with my own experience on hrt... and i'm sorry. i really shouldn't have said most to all of what i said, and i do realize that i sounded quite stupid here. i will try to be more reasonable in the future, but i said that to myself before. but well, here we are.

      mentions of people who where also in this "discussion": @JohnBrownNote@hexbear.net @Orannis62@hexbear.net @silent_water@hexbear.net

        • AcidSmiley [she/her]
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          8 months ago

          I don't think it's a waste of time, there's a lot of good, insightful replies ITT and maybe it helps some people understand. Lack of understanding is what's hurting us the most.

      • silent_water [she/her]
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        8 months ago

        be that as it may, the transmed stuff is still brain poison and it's worth learning to identify it. appreciate the apology though.