I do not mean this as a rhetorical question: I mean it literally. Tell us what’s stopping you! I don’t want to invalidate you, but the opposite. I’m sure people here would love to help if it’s possible. Post away!
Personally, I think Covid and the general amount of work everyone does are the two biggest obstacles to community building. Not just for me, but everybody I know. It’s nearly impossible to build a community when nobody has the energy to even play a video game together, and actually meeting up in person can literally kill you. There are definitely solutions, but we need to realize them as problems first to find them. If you have suggestions, please share them! Same goes for the issues everyone else shares (if they’re ok with help, of course).
I feel you on the social media front.
At some point I'm going to need an account or two that I log into for 15 minutes maybe a few times a week. But I'd want it to not have my name on it, and for my radical identity to be separate from my official/personal/"professional" (lol) identity. It might be easier if I got a few "scrub your main profile" workshops going, but that takes even more time and effort and willpower.
Have you dived very deep into executive functions, and their classification and disorders?
I have ADHD if that's what you mean about disorders, makes my attention span all over the place and I wear out fast