Hohsia [he/him] to Self Improvement • 8 months ago

How can one gain an internal sense of validation?

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How can one gain an internal sense of validation?

Hohsia [he/him] to Self Improvement • 8 months ago

Let me know if I’m getting too deep for this (brand new) comm, but I’ve noticed lately that all of my sense of validation at this point in my life comes from other people. Is it possible to gain this feeling from my self or is that unrealistic?

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material_delinquent
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8 months ago
also I have always respected IT people (I am not disciplined enough for it)

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- roux [he/him, comrade/them]
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  8 months ago
  I feel like my "gift" is the computery side of IT and not so much the dev side. I can do both. But can't get even an entry level job because I fucking suck at talking to humans and so I suck at interviewing.
  
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