https://twitter.com/StevieBlunder__/status/1777572921235677238

  • FlakesBongler [they/them]
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    9 months ago

    lacking basic hygiene

    Yep

    A lot of these guys don't even know how to do laundry because it's woman's work

    And you better believe a lot of these guys refuse to wash themselves properly because it's gay

    • TheDoctor [they/them]
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      9 months ago

      A lot of these guys don't even know how to do laundry because it's woman's work

      This was me, not because I was worried about doing women’s work, but because my mom was so insistent on doing certain things for me that I stopped trying to learn until I moved out for the first time. It’s embarrassing to be a grown man and not know how to do laundry because of some random sexist bullshit you were submitted to. I thought for a long time that I was just ungrateful for my mom doing my laundry for me. But now I’m a parent and no, I was fully justified in being pissed. I had genuine interest in learning to clean and in being clean and my parents refused to teach me. That’s bullshit, especially when it was sexist on top of it.

    • utopologist [any]
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      9 months ago

      You expect me to touch a man's body? 🤔🤔🤔

    • zed_proclaimer [he/him]
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      9 months ago

      have you considered some of them are just lazy and/or don't give a fuck about what others think about them?

      • autismdragon [he/him, they/them]
        hexagon
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        9 months ago

        Also to be fair theres at least some who have executive functioning issues (me) but thats not the majority of guys at these things lol.

        • taiphlosion@lemmygrad.ml
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          9 months ago

          As a fellow autistic I understand but also my tism compels me to be clean because I have sensory issues otherwise, I hate hate hate being dirty/having cluttered space/etc

    • blakeus12 [he/him]
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      9 months ago

      idc of it's bad for my skin a warm shower is my one respite at the start of every monotonous shitty day

        • blakeus12 [he/him]
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          9 months ago

          that too. and my hair always starts smelling really bad at the end of the day, not that anybody is sniffing my hair or anything but the smell of hair is gross to me

        • Philosoraptor [he/him, comrade/them]
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          9 months ago

          Same. Unless I'm camping, I have to shower every night before bed or I feel gross and greasy. I don't get how people go weeks without it.