It seems like the person not online as much sort of simulates a lot of unwritten social rules that only people who are able to learn those rules are able to see.

Can someone please tell me they know what I mean by this

  • stigsbandit34z [they/them]
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    7 months ago

    Yeah probably but I’m just confused why she’s ignoring my messages but following me on TikTok? Is that not strange? I don’t even post shit there anymore

    • odmroz [he/him]
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      7 months ago

      when did she start following u? When u guys started going on dates, or after she stopped responding to messages?

      • stigsbandit34z [they/them]
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        7 months ago

        Just tonight lol we stopped going on dates more than a year ago. Idk man, probably just a long way to say I wish people used their words. Maybe no neurotype is exempt

        • odmroz [he/him]
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          7 months ago

          I respect the hell out of ppl who don't ghost me but just tell me straight up. I try to give the same respect to the ppl I go on dates w that I'm not into.