stigsbandit34z [they/them]

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Cake day: July 26th, 2020

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  • stigsbandit34z [they/them]toaskchapoDefine Flirting
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    15 hours ago

    Aw man. I’ve never had an autism diagnosis, but the fact that some of these comments read like a foreign language confirms the fact that you don’t always need a professional diagnosis

    It is reassuring to know that there are others who share the same struggle though (please show yourself in real life)






  • Big structure person here, and the big companies I’ve worked for are very structure-oriented.

    But some are almost Squid game-esque, meaning you could be doing everything correctly but have one off day and be terminated

    Shit forgot the smaller companies, very chaotic and disorganized. I think it’s a failure from a leadership standpoint when you can’t at least try to have some organization, but smaller companies seem to be obsessed with “innovation” and “automation” at all costs.

    And turns out if your leadership doesn’t know how to automate without prompting chatgpt, you’re going to miss out on all of this “productivity”


  • The vibe seems generally OK until you suggest that maybe people should just consume less

    Perhaps if we all purchased/watched less slop, we might be able to take back the slightest control over our data-collected and surveilled lives?

    I like to believe that there millions of people in the US who share my sentiment, maybe they overlap with non-voters as well

    It’s still incomprehensible to me how many people are on the other side of this, just no thoughts whatsoever regarding the fact that consuming is just like fast food fulfillment for your conscious experience AND its overvalued to an absurd degree

    Absolutely fucking blows


  • Very re-assuring and validating to see that the experience is not uncommon

    I’m not good with adjusting to rapidly changing situations either. Like I truly had no problem keeping friends in my life from ages 8-18, then shit definitely hit the fan when my 20s came around. I’ve only ever been able to make friends on dating apps (won’t even get into how there are no third spaces) which has always felt uncomfortable 🥴


  • deeper-sadness

    Really appreciate the kind and thoughtful response, comrade. Unfortunately however bittersweet it may be, that makes a lot of sense :( I fear for my future though because I’m not the best at picking up where we left off part, especially considering the fact that sometimes I forget people exist if I don’t hear from them for sometime you know?

    There’s also the case of when I meet someone who is very closed off and a reflection of all the qualities that make me insecure about myself but has similar interests and a chill vibe. And usually the latter wins out because it keeps my attention longer than thinking about the reality of the former :/