It seems like the person not online as much sort of simulates a lot of unwritten social rules that only people who are able to learn those rules are able to see.

Can someone please tell me they know what I mean by this

  • TheDeed [he/him, comrade/them]
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    7 months ago

    If she's ignoring your messages and ghosted you before, there's no hidden message or games here. She is not interested in you.

    People who are interested in you respond to your messages, or even message you first.

    I've seen things like this manifest into weird obsessions, full on mental breaks, and even stalking, liking posts and following and stuff on social media is not some kind of cryptic message.

    I'm not saying that this will happen to you, just saying this framing and way of thinking is not the kind of mental rabbithole you want to go down, so best to just ignore it completely unless she reaches out to you first, with words that is.

    • stigsbandit34z [they/them]
      hexagon
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      7 months ago

      Still doesn’t answer the question why she followed me on TikTok as someone who doesn’t use TikTok other than to scroll