Funnily enough, just today, I saw someone ask the "bear vs. man" question but specifically directed at trans people, and I responded with this:

I'm a transfeminine enby, and I'd pick a woman over a man, but I'd pick a bear over either a man or a woman. I don't feel safe around a lot of cis people, regardless if they are men or women.

Sadly, it's too real.