cross-posted from: https://lemmygrad.ml/post/4657758

Can you find love after 30?

Can a guy who hasn’t had much luck with women until his 30s find love by then or is it already too late for him?

  • bigboopballs [he/him]
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    1 month ago

    However the older you get the more people in your age bracket have either coupled off or lost interest in romance so pickings become slimmer, also dating is harder when you have less energy, easier to find people to fool around with when youthful horniness can drive you to stay up till 4am

    around what age does it become like that? when do people lose youthful horniness like that?

    • Diuretic_Materialism [he/him]
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      1 month ago

      Different for different people but usually around 30. Maybe it's less that they're not as horny but the staying up till 4pm becomes harder. And yeah I'm 30 and most of my friends are either married or in very serious relationships now so meeting singles my own age does feel harder.

      • bigboopballs [he/him]
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        1 month ago

        I wonder if it necessarily becomes harder to stay up all night as you get older, as long as you're still getting the required number of hours of sleep