Mines pretty tame, but my exs ex husband was obsessed with her and would not leave her alone

  • FearsomeJoeandmac [he/him, he/him]
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    6 months ago

    Yeah that happened at my high school as well. The 18 year old hooking up with a younger teacher in his 30s.. dudes are just weirdos

    • ButtBidet [he/him]
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      6 months ago

      If you listen to really old teachers and staffroom gossip, that shit was really common and even accepted 30+ years ago. Like teachers would marry their former students.

      This is 100% hearsay, so don't @ me if it's bullshit.

      • huf [he/him]
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        6 months ago

        my literature/history teacher did this in the early 2000s. repeatedly. a divorced man dating 17 year olds.

        everyone knew, no one did anything.

        • ButtBidet [he/him]
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          6 months ago

          I like to think that things are a lot better now, because I never see this. But who knows. I also don't know that the school system culture is like in your area.

          The worst-worst I've seen now is a male teacher asking too personal questions. Still bad, but not anywhere near the level of having a relationship with them.

          • huf [he/him]
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            6 months ago

            i have no idea what it's like now. i'm no longer in school (or talk to anyone who's in school).