How do I curb these urges?

  • TheDoctor [they/them]
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    2 months ago

    Same way you deal with any attraction. Bottle it up out of fear of embarrassment. Then when you can’t take it anymore, confess your undying love. If you’ve done it right, the other person will know that what you are in love with is a mere fantasy in your head. Your entire friendship will be based on expectations that they weren’t aware of and therefore had no way to consent to.