As a man trying to get laid with women, I’m constantly having to play games and lean into patriarchal convention because that is really the only way to be half way successful.

The song and dance is mind numbingly stupid but you have to do it if you want to get your pp touched. Nuke cishet dating from orbit, I need a director’s cut, a rerelease. I’m convinced no one actually likes this.

  • CthulhusIntern [he/him]
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    23 days ago

    I'm a cishet man, and I've noticed that every single person I've had any amount of success with have been some flavor of queer. It's not like I've been intentionally seeking out queer women, and I have been on dates with straight women that went nowhere, but it's only queer people that go anywhere. Not sure why.

    • Frank [he/him, he/him]
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      23 days ago

      Samesies, and I too don't really know why. Maybe consent culture and open communication are more normalized in queer culture? Idk.