this is an experiment i have done for the last week or something. no upbear counters, no upbear buttons, just sorted by new or new comments. it has been very nice, but i know that inevitably somebody is gonna feel like i'm being snooty to them for not upbearing them. its very nice that people are taking time out of their day to engage with me on the net, and i always feel that when i get the notifications, but i think some of them are gonna take it personally if i keep this crap up

the question: how important is this little courtesy to you???? does it bother you if you dont get upvotes when you are talking to people?

thank you for your replies but know that for responding to this survey i cannot offer any remuneration. you are encouraged to not upbear this post or even report it if you see any flagrant rulebreaks

just for context i have done this experiment to see if it feels better and if i feel less obsessive about innernet points/see if i make better comments without the motivation (turns out this one is a no)

  • tocopherol [any]
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    18 days ago

    I like to upbear every comment I see because I just appreciate everyone who posts here, unless what they are saying is some bullshit or overly rude

    • gueybana [any]
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      18 days ago

      Yeah, unless the reply is attacking me personally or they’re just being douchey, I’ll upvote anything. And i’ll do it again

      • 12022081631 [he/him]
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        18 days ago

        I’ll upvote anything. And i’ll do it again

        this is the voter fraud they keep telling me about!!!!!!

    • glans [it/its]
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      17 days ago

      i have assumed there are a lot of people doing that because otherwise nothing makes sense

      i find it very sweet