• autismdragon [he/him, they/them]
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      2 months ago

      Jocks weren't even my main issue in school really. Team sports themselves were bullying central but like. In highschool a lot of the football kids were nice to me. Not all my bullies were athletic. My experiance with bullying defied the stereotypes shown in movies in many ways!

      This isnt about that. its about the well documented problems with athletic programs for kids that exist right now. Is my experience universal? No, because not every kid is an uncoordinated autistic kid with negative athletic ability lol. But it is pretty fucking common and other people in this thread have talked about it.

      Those need to be fixed. The fix isnt abolishing sports programs obviously. But there does need to be cultural change. Because until there is theres going to be a lot of disabled kids going through traumatic experiences.

      Like idk I dont get your reaction here like do you think my solution is to abolish sports? The only ones I'd even consider that for are golf for environmental reasons and even then I'm fine with driving ranges and mini golf. Others have said abolish american football (gridiron) but I'm not even sure i'n behind that. Though there are serious reforms that have to be made for contact sports so kids because of concussions and shit. But sports that aren't even high contact like basketball and soccer? Totally fine with me lol. I'm not trying to abolish them. I'm trying to make reforms to the culture surrounding them. Toxic sports parents, shitty abusive coaches, the bullying culture, the way many schools are biased towards athletes, ect ect ect.