what im saying is what im saying, stop randomly jumping to conclusions, it's so confusing
if im asking you what you need me to do for you, i'm not trying to guilt you for needing things, im asking you what you need from me
god communication is so frustrating 
It's so exhausting! It feels dramatic to me sometimes, like NTs are looking for something else from a conversation beyond actually conversating.
If it's not a friend, allistic people often are looking for something else beyond conversing and wet also understand this so are defensive when someone is straightforward because what's the angle