• miz [any, any]
    ·
    3 days ago

    I feel like some kind of vanilla rube for not even being aware of a BDSM meaning. what does it mean

    • ProletarianDictator [none/use name]
      ·
      3 days ago

      So instead of being an obedient sub who preemptively submits, a brat is a sub that purposefully disobeys in order for the dom to punish their disobedience.

      • keepcarrot [she/her]
        ·
        3 days ago

        I remember being on a road trip and the couple in the back was doing brat play. Far from me to kink shame, but it actually made my skin crawl.