Not being useful to your question at all, but if you find or start a community, I'll join. I've been various stages of vegetarian and vegan over the last 6 years. Never felt like I needed to talk about my specific, contextual exceptions, but I'm guessing it wouldn't be well accepted among hardline vegans.
I've also found that the vegans I know in my personal life are mostly nonjudgmental. Militant veganism feels like a stereotype or an anomaly of online spaces. Get to know some vegans at work/school/mural aid groups/activist orgs and you'll probably find some friends who don't need you to be 100% vegan all the time. Personally, I allow myself to slip into a vegetarian diet on my birthday, my partner's birthday, and our anniversary. I've never received criticism for this, but I'd understand if other vegans had a problem with it.
Not being useful to your question at all, but if you find or start a community, I'll join. I've been various stages of vegetarian and vegan over the last 6 years. Never felt like I needed to talk about my specific, contextual exceptions, but I'm guessing it wouldn't be well accepted among hardline vegans.
I will try to start it here: https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/c/plantbased :)
Joined!
Yay :D welcome
That is useful :) I would love to be able to discuss this freely as well. I’ve been doing it for about the same time as you! Thanks for sharing!
I've also found that the vegans I know in my personal life are mostly nonjudgmental. Militant veganism feels like a stereotype or an anomaly of online spaces. Get to know some vegans at work/school/mural aid groups/activist orgs and you'll probably find some friends who don't need you to be 100% vegan all the time. Personally, I allow myself to slip into a vegetarian diet on my birthday, my partner's birthday, and our anniversary. I've never received criticism for this, but I'd understand if other vegans had a problem with it.
You’re probably right, I also see it more online.
Your personal choice about holidays is exactly the kind of thing that would be attack on vegan@lemmy.world. That’s my main point :(
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