Hi disabled community! I'm so sorry the megathread is late this week. I hope everyone's new year is going well so far!
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Mask up, love one another, and stay alive for one more week.
Work talk: So for some fucking reason, I'm doing good at my job. The problem is that it's not a career job. There are no benefits and no savings option. They just fired a bunch of drivers that weren't doing great and kept me on even though I was supposed to just be temp. I guess it's something. Solidarity for those that got let go.
Story time: I accidentally ratted on a co-worker years ago and got him fired over a dumb joke and ever since I've made it a workplace mantra to just not rat out people. They can be the shittiest workers but I won't say shit. I feel really bad for that guy getting canned and not just because he was my pill guy. So, solidarity. We all need to eat.
Switching gears. I got 2 days off starting today but I also work 4 days this week. I told my boss at the beginning that I only wanted 3. I'm not making a big deal about it now because the extra day makes up for only getting 2 days last week. I'm gonna tell bossmain that I only want 3 days going forward unless he absolutely needs me for a 4th. Like if we are short people or someone quits/gets fired, I can pick up an extra shift. I'm old and my body can't take 4 days.
Ok, ulterior motive is that I'm working on my web stuff, I am onboarded for a volunteer open source mobile app project, and I am working on starting my PSL branch which now includes a book club. All that on top of parental duties and house chores has now filled up all my time. So 3 days for now seems right.
Tism Talk:
I went to a Lego convention with my partner, kids, and in-laws and got so overwhelmed with the amount of people there that I left 20 minutes in and sat in the car crying, listing to stimmy music, and trying to calm down. Never cried for over-stimulation before so that was new.
I'm sorry to hear the overstimulation hit you this hard. From what you're writing, it sounds like you got a lot on your plate already, so I think I get it. I hope you can unwind more somewhere between work and projects and other duties. Take care, friend!
I'm currently trying to feel out when I'm heading towards meltdown or shutdown and trying to mitigate that. After realizing I was going through burnout since college, I've been working on trying to be productive yet taking it easy during my downtime me days like today. I have a few things I want to get done but if I don't get to them all it's fine. I have tomorrow.