Have any queer vibes to share? Here's your place! 
Talk about what’s happening queerly in your life - like coming out, getting HRT, questioning, and all that good stuff.
No cishets allowed! 
Have any queer vibes to share? Here's your place!
Talk about what’s happening queerly in your life - like coming out, getting HRT, questioning, and all that good stuff.
No cishets allowed!
It's great, isn't it? It's true self-care. Not in the "sit on a couch all weekend snacking and drinking" sense that the phrase has seemingly devolved into, but in the true and healthy sense.
I feel kind of liberated in the sense that I really don't feel as beholden to conform to the hetero gender norms around dating women. Instead, I just imagine dating the person who I have the most mutual attraction and comfort around. They could be any gender now. That's self care in the sense that I am relieving myself of the anxieties around that.
I'm kind of new to looking at myself as part of a queer community. Yet, I feel more and more a profound sense of gratitude for those comrades who have fought so many battles so that everyone can have a place to be themselves.