i agree im just saying people tend to think their narrow experience are universal. lots of kids had best friends, went to parties, and was in groupchats. lots of people didnt fit in with many friend groups or have any friends at all. definitely not a universal experience just an average one.for example i went from zero friends to a close knit friend group very quickly so i cant relate.
yeah but insecurity about how much your friends like you is a pretty universal experience especially for teenagers
i agree im just saying people tend to think their narrow experience are universal. lots of kids had best friends, went to parties, and was in groupchats. lots of people didnt fit in with many friend groups or have any friends at all. definitely not a universal experience just an average one.for example i went from zero friends to a close knit friend group very quickly so i cant relate.