For those of you who haven't watched 30 rock, there's an episode where Tina Fey's character goes to her Highschool reunion and she's super excited to rub it in the popular girl's faces who bullied her that she's a hugely successful television writer now.

When she gets there and runs into them they all tell her that actually she was the bully and they've all spent years in therapy recovering from the mental trauma and abuse she inflicted on them for years.

....that episode fucking haunts me.