This isn't about grieving, just assuming the complete absence of your family and all the inheritance.

I'd pay off my medical debt and go back to university. I'm so tired. I just want to learn and stop struggling. I don't even qualify for my own debt so I have to have it in someone else's name, being bound to an abuser...

  • mofongo@lemm.ee
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    8 months ago

    That’s dark man. I hope your situation gets better.

    I am still very dependent on my family so I would probably not be able to continue to study and have to get a job somewhere.

  • Ms. ArmoredThirteen@lemmy.ml
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    8 months ago

    How far is the family dying? Like immediate family, extended? If just immediate family, I think I actually make more than all of them put together so my finances probably wouldn't change that much (tech job vs. everyone else having small town service jobs). I'd get a partially paid for house in a town I don't want to live in so yay? Maybe I'd rent it for super cheap to a struggling college student or something idk, feels like that would be better than selling it. If we're talking extended family though a bunch of them are architects and shit they're totally loaded. I'd liquidate everything, dump several million into some kind of capitalist money making system, and set myself up to move to another country and eventually retire there.