kind of excessively for the men as an explicit repudiation of heterosexual norms

Most likely yes, but that's not really the point here, is it? This post wasn't aimed at the sort who sexualize (almost exclusively long dead) men, it was aimed at dudes being excessively sexual towards women, particularly in the context of socialist women actively achieving things being sexualized on here.

Also:

“But somebody lusted over a man”

Okay, report that. Comment on that. Don’t comment on a post about the misogyny fems have to deal with on a daily basis and say “what about the men.” Like I said in another comment: should men be creeped on in the comments? No. Is it a widespread problem for men? No. Do men start at a disadvantage due to their gender? No.

I don't totally disagree with you, but I am on here a bit too much, and have noticed more than a fair few people toing the line of creepiness. Also, as someone else noted, not entirely comfortable with the weird sex pest stuff on a site that has quite a lot of teens.