After seeing some threads it's clear that there are chapos here who need a mentor in the romantic arts (tm). Pitch me your best Q's and I'll spit my best A's.
I've been a professional dating coach and matchmaker for the last 6 years.
edit: Wrapped up for now. Thanks everyone and good luck out there, you can do it!
Other question I often receive is how to get over a bad break up.
NSFW Answer
"Fucking the pain away" actually often works in addition to self care. You should of course also/instead see a therapist if you went through trauma.
get over someone by getting under someone
Yes, 100%.