After seeing some threads it's clear that there are chapos here who need a mentor in the romantic arts (tm). Pitch me your best Q's and I'll spit my best A's.
I've been a professional dating coach and matchmaker for the last 6 years.
edit: Wrapped up for now. Thanks everyone and good luck out there, you can do it!
It's a problem for a lot of people, especially with internalized misogyny which ties self-worth with romantic success. You're not alone if you experience this and a therapist can do wonders here.