not in the slightest ._.
like...compare it to petting a dog, sure it's nice to pet a dog, but the dog probably has it better ya'know?
kissing and sex and stuff is like that.
Petting a dog is very soothing! But I don't want to draw too close a metaphor between that and sex because yikes.
talking sex
But giving pleasure, especially with that element of control, is so erotic, it's such a thrill to see someone I'm into just writhe in pleasure from what I'm doing, it makes me turned on, and it makes me want them more. And of course I still do it with them, like if I'm topping someone with a dick I'm probably riding that thing, or if not then I'm sitting on their face, and it gets me off so much harder when I've gotten all worked up wrapping them around my finger.
One thing I have noticed is I'm more in a sub mood when I'm "raw" horny, like I desire physical pleasure, and more in a domme mood when I'm horny for someone in particular and the horny comes from specifically desiring them. If that explains anything.
Petting a dog is very soothing! But I don’t want to draw too close a metaphor between that and sex because yikes.
you get what I mean :meow-tableflip:
But giving pleasure, especially with that element of control, is so erotic
I guess I don't really seek that kind of control, I don't like it....for whatever reason.
it’s such a thrill to see someone I’m into just writhe in pleasure from what I’m doing
nah...it's much better on the other end I thinks 😳
One thing I have noticed is I’m more in a sub mood when I’m “raw” horny, like I desire physical pleasure, and more in a domme mood when I’m horny for someone in particular and the horny comes from specifically desiring them. If that explains anything.
Being a brat, refusing commands, cumming without permission, catching me in the wrong mood, etc.
All in the context of a bdsm scene of course, with the mutual understanding that "punishments" can be opted out of with no consequences by use of a safe word
We held hands
and made out
and she slid her hand up my skirt
and nothing else! :soviet-huff:
But maybe next date :soviet-bashful:
did you tell your parents that!!? :meow-knit:
Lmao no 😂
well I wish you luck in your romantic endeavors and that she doms you....or you her....or whatever your into in your next encounter.
Nah she's a total sub I can tell :top-use-words:
I dunnoooo, seemed like she was getting pretty handsy~
This was as a follow up to me doing that to her, I was definitely leading the way 😏
if you say so~
I do :soviet-huff:
I don't mind a good domme one bit, but I know a sub when I taste one
I bet she turns the tables on you 😏
That'd be hot! We'll see 😊
noooo, I'm suppose to be getting under your skin :meow-tableflip:
"Oh, you're a switch? Well what if one of the two most basic switch fantasies happened to you? I bet you'd hate that!"
....I don't know how it works, okay! :soviet-pout:
Okay here's how it works.
I like topping. I like being topped. It's kinda hot to switch roles in the middle
Basically I always win :soviet-huff:
you're an alien.
Does that turn you on a little? 😏
I just don't understand the mindset at all :blob-no-thoughts:
Well do you understand the mindset of a top?
Cause I know you know how fun it can be to bottom 😇
not in the slightest ._.
like...compare it to petting a dog, sure it's nice to pet a dog, but the dog probably has it better ya'know?
kissing and sex and stuff is like that.
Petting a dog is very soothing! But I don't want to draw too close a metaphor between that and sex because yikes.
talking sex
But giving pleasure, especially with that element of control, is so erotic, it's such a thrill to see someone I'm into just writhe in pleasure from what I'm doing, it makes me turned on, and it makes me want them more. And of course I still do it with them, like if I'm topping someone with a dick I'm probably riding that thing, or if not then I'm sitting on their face, and it gets me off so much harder when I've gotten all worked up wrapping them around my finger.
One thing I have noticed is I'm more in a sub mood when I'm "raw" horny, like I desire physical pleasure, and more in a domme mood when I'm horny for someone in particular and the horny comes from specifically desiring them. If that explains anything.
you get what I mean :meow-tableflip:
I guess I don't really seek that kind of control, I don't like it....for whatever reason.
nah...it's much better on the other end I thinks 😳
that makes sense, I guess.
Well, different preferences, you're entitled to enjoy whatever you do 😊 Especially if that includes a nice spanking 😊
I didn't say anything about that!
Oh okay yes we'll strike that from the agenda 🙇🏻♀️
...I-I didn't say that either
Okay, well to would never spank someone unless they gave me a very good reason to, or asked very sweetly for one 😇
what's grounds for spanking? :puzzled:
Being a brat, refusing commands, cumming without permission, catching me in the wrong mood, etc.
All in the context of a bdsm scene of course, with the mutual understanding that "punishments" can be opted out of with no consequences by use of a safe word
everyone accuses me of being a brat and I don't get why
Cause you get all fussy
I do not!
DOING IT RIGHT NOW
I...well....it's still not true
You're very meek for a brat I'll give you that
I....can't tell if that is suppose to be a compliment :bottom-speak:
It's just your own style :headpat:
style sounds cool
Ur a cool bottom 👈🏼:top-use-words: 👈🏼
ur a cool....whatever you are.
Switch :soviet-huff:
where? is it on your back? can I pull it and have you be all demure?
Maaaaaaaaybe, maybe not
You can go exploring for it it 😉
is this a trick?
To get you to feel me up?
:yes-comm:
u-um...okay
*reaches behind back?
You feel a metal switch, sort of shaped like a light switch, right between the shoulder blades
really? o.o
What do u do
uh...um...is it pointed in any particular way?
It's currently in the up position
I'm too curious not to push it down tbh
Self destruct sequence activated. Detonation will occur in :countdown: seconds unless the correct password is entered.
:meow-knit: u-uuuuuuuuh.....
Would you like your password hint
yes YES!!
The password is the sound of a bottom whining
:bottom-speak: c'moooon
Password accepted. Entering sub mode.
Thank you mistress 😳
...I-I dunno if I like this
Oh... If I've been bad you can punish me 😔
o-okay,,,turn around and lie on my lap.
😳 of course
*slowly flips the switch back up
:pathetic:
w-what?
Shouldn't start what you can't finish, bottom
your the one who told me to!
You chickened out :chicken-bop:
*pulls switch back down
apologize for calling me pathetic
I'm sorry, mistress, you should gag me to stop me from saying such things again 😔
thank you 😌
*flips it back
THIS is how you earn a spanking
even when I know your weakness?
:top-use-words: That was for your education. It doesn't work unless I want it to.
...
*hesitantly tries to pull it back down
See? You can be a real brat
uh...well.....*tries to run away
Bottom wants to be caught
I....did not say that.
Still here I see. Lie on my lap.
...do I have to? :bottom-speak:
:top-use-words: Now.
okay okay
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