Petting a dog is very soothing! But I don’t want to draw too close a metaphor between that and sex because yikes.
you get what I mean :meow-tableflip:
But giving pleasure, especially with that element of control, is so erotic
I guess I don't really seek that kind of control, I don't like it....for whatever reason.
it’s such a thrill to see someone I’m into just writhe in pleasure from what I’m doing
nah...it's much better on the other end I thinks 😳
One thing I have noticed is I’m more in a sub mood when I’m “raw” horny, like I desire physical pleasure, and more in a domme mood when I’m horny for someone in particular and the horny comes from specifically desiring them. If that explains anything.
Being a brat, refusing commands, cumming without permission, catching me in the wrong mood, etc.
All in the context of a bdsm scene of course, with the mutual understanding that "punishments" can be opted out of with no consequences by use of a safe word
you get what I mean :meow-tableflip:
I guess I don't really seek that kind of control, I don't like it....for whatever reason.
nah...it's much better on the other end I thinks 😳
that makes sense, I guess.
Well, different preferences, you're entitled to enjoy whatever you do 😊 Especially if that includes a nice spanking 😊
I didn't say anything about that!
Oh okay yes we'll strike that from the agenda 🙇🏻♀️
...I-I didn't say that either
Okay, well to would never spank someone unless they gave me a very good reason to, or asked very sweetly for one 😇
what's grounds for spanking? :puzzled:
Being a brat, refusing commands, cumming without permission, catching me in the wrong mood, etc.
All in the context of a bdsm scene of course, with the mutual understanding that "punishments" can be opted out of with no consequences by use of a safe word
everyone accuses me of being a brat and I don't get why