Now that I've graduated, my grandmother wants pictures of me holding my degree. She has a spot on her living room wall where she keeps photos of all her family that went to uni. I didn't go to my graduation, but she still wants to add me to the wall.

I've been putting the whole thing off for now. But, like, I'm not out to her yet and don't know how I'd explain how badly looking at a picture of myself like this will make me feel.

But at the same time, I feel guilty about refusing to do this for her when she was so supportive of me during my studies.