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  • REallyN [she/her,they/them]
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    3 years ago

    God, the way incels/PUA talk about getting laid or wanting to get laid kinda weird to me.
    Like, I’m sure on some level alot of them want intimacy or a connection, but the way they describe it seems so…mechanical…like they want a pussy to jack off with cause masturbation isn’t manly.
    Like sex is a status symbol, or a milestone in manhood.

    Idk, I am kind of an incel and I kind of wonder if I am the same way on some level.
    I do sort of feel like I haven’t achieved many of those kind of milestones and like I should.
    Or that I want sex for egotistical reasons and to feel desired.
    but I also want to be vulnerable with someone, to be close with someone.

    tbh I say “sex” but I’ve mostly just been thinking about kissing and stuff this whole time.
    Idk why I am rambling about this, I was just watching Hasan react to pick up artists.

    • Sandinband
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      3 years ago

      It sounds more like you want physical intimacy/ to know someone's attracted to you and those are just normal human feelings. Not incel like at all