op never said what kind of community they met him in tho, hard to say if there were moderators at all. like if it was an organized party or event then yeah, the organizers should be more diligent. but if it was just like a Facebook group or something, there should not have been any expectation on op's part that the boy was vetted.
op never said what kind of community they met him in tho, hard to say if there were moderators at all. like if it was an organized party or event then yeah, the organizers should be more diligent. but if it was just like a Facebook group or something, there should not have been any expectation on op's part that the boy was vetted.