Yeah, again, I'm not angry. No where in here have I been overtly asstier or put people down. I could call you a "stinky allo" if you want to buy me dinner first, though. A critique of toxic components of modern romance is not taking away other people's agency to experience it and should certainly not be an attack on your world view the way it is now. It especially does not necessitate believing I have "justified anger" or that the thoughts and ideas of an aromantic person could only could come from a place of anger - I hope you reflect on that alone.

Please explain to me why me being non-aro isn’t the same. Why do you think your own identity is more important than other’s?

Yeah, I guess let me just never speak on trans issues or critique cisheteronormativity while I'm at it. I mean, what do you want me to say here? If the general attitude weren't to immediately dismiss these thoughts outright like has been done in this thread, there would be no need to be so forceful, don't you think?