Mainly here, but now that i think about it IRL sucks too. Its far too fucking easy for me to get mad, especially if someone found a trauma trigger. Being a communist sucks as an autistic person in general, im doomed to be shit at it. Won't stop me from trying, though.

      • Pluto [he/him, he/him]
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        10 months ago

        MUST GET LAST WORD

        (I hate this one because my OCD goes into overdrive and when I tell someone I'm done and I won't make another argument to humor them they still reply with another salvo or argument so I feel compelled to reply back.)

        • silent_water [she/her]
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          10 months ago

          we have a disengage rule for this reason. tell them to disengage and then report the reply if they continue to argue.

          (don't use it as a way to get the last word...)

            • silent_water [she/her]
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              10 months ago

              true. I just find that it's not that I never want to talk to that user, I just want them (and others) to stop replying to me in that particular thread. people just get unnecessarily heated sometimes.