We want everyone here to feel safe and comfortable to post and participate in this community. We know there’s a bit of fear that even just one simple misunderstanding or ‘off’ social interaction will get you banned and slandered.

We just wanted to make it crystal clear that we will not let that be the case in this community. We understand very well how it feels for a social engagement to be going great and then suddenly its gone sour and it’s your fault and you don’t even know why everyone’s upset, and then without being given a chance to even learn what the problem was or grow, are cast out.

That won’t fly here. You won’t be cast aside for one or even multiple mistakes so long as it’s clear you’re doing your best to improve. Obviously, this isn’t a blank check for people to be abusive or hateful and get away scot-free, this policy can extend only as far as good faith. If you have any concerns or questions feel free to ask in the comments or dm us!

We’ve been getting suggestions that we should find ways to help users be able to spotlight their interests, as we’ve done here with this megathread, one other idea we had is to explicitly state that if you make a post about your interest and you want it spotlit, just @ one of the mods in a comment in the thread and we’ll pin it! Just ask!

Please let us know if you all would think of a more robust tagging system of posts, such as how [effort post] is commonly used, but maybe for stuff like [support] when you need to vent and want support, [venting] for when you need to vent but don’t want anyone to engage with it, stuff like that. It will normalize being able to directly ask for what you need, and it’s easy for us to imagine someone making a post to vent or complain about something but doesn’t want to or isn’t comfortable with people giving advice or pitching solutions. You don’t have to tag every post, but we want to encourage this as an option for people who would like it.

We think it’s okay for someone to explicitly ask to be upvoted, or for support, or to feel comfortable saying “I stayed up all night making this” because you stayed up all night making something that is something that you are proud of!

Please read this post if you haven't already

TL:DR: Don't subtweet about issues you have with c/ND mods or about issues with the treatment of ND users on the site as a whole. Contact us directly about either of those issues and we'll try our best to resolve it. Good mods to contact are listed in the linked post.

Alt tl:dr: "To indulge in irresponsible criticism in private instead of actively putting forward one's suggestions to the organization. To say nothing to people to their faces but to gossip behind their backs, or to say nothing at a meeting but to gossip afterwards. To show no regard at all for the principles of collective life but to follow one's own inclination. This is a second type [of liberalism]." - Mao Zedong