imo the new alt account that just got banned had "I think women are shallow and stupid, so being asked to respect them makes me feel like I'm being asked to tiptoe around the imperious, unreasonable demands of a child holding The Cancel Gun who would walk all over me if allowed to, rather than being asked to show basic decency to a fellow deep-thinking adult who is capable of respecting and empathizing with me and just wants the same respect and empathy in return" vibes.